How to make a good sex dating profile

Adult dating has literally exploded over the past decade, with so many more men and women opting to have some no strings fun rather than deciding to take the big plunge and getting married. Nothing wrong with that; it might sound hollow to some but it is better than people not doing the things they really want too. Religion doesn’t always dominate people’s thoughts so we have a lower moral imperative when it comes to coupling. We feel freer and we therefore act in consequence as we all want to have a good time. All it takes is to find the right dating site and create your dating profile. Easy? Let’s take a look…

What site to use?

Dating sites are different in nature. If you want to get married you should try a traditional dating site but if you want to have sex then why not try local sex ads on an adult dating platform? It seems to make sense that you want to reach out to the right people, so for example if you want sex then go and talk to people who want sex. Members of sex dating sites are all pretty horny, otherwise you wouldn’t find them on a sex site. Don’t worry about dirty talk with those guys and ladies; they won’t judge you in a negative way. So make sure you use the best sex dating site that fits your needs and wants, and don’t hesitate to specialise if you are looking for specific kinks.

Your profile picture

Honesty is always best with whatever form of dating you may choose. People will see you eventually in the flesh so using a fake picture or a not-so-representative picture will not get you very far. We all want to be seen under a good light but we shouldn’t have to deceive people to do that. Don’t use a picture from 10 years ago when you still had that six-pack abs, instead keep to something recent even if you don’t find that image to be very flattering? People can see through most lies, and you don’t want to get caught lying because you will lose out. People won’t like you and they will pass the word around, so just use a realistic picture of yourself. And yes, no catfishing neither!

What to write?

Well since you’re looking for sex, why not just say what you actually want to do? You want to try new positions, you like it a certain way? Just say it, don’t ever be ashamed of the things you want to do; just own up to it. Just stay polite, come across as friendly and above all make sure that you mention how much you are interested in what your potential partner has to say? Listen to their needs, make it clear that you know it is not just about you. You will come across as considerate and women know they will be in good hands and that you will take care of them … Read More

Love awaits around the corner

We all want to find the right partner, whether we are looking for love or simple companionship. The basic idea is to find someone we feel close too, or at least someone we can have fun with, and this can be done easily these days with the help of the internet and its many dating websites.  The best part is that we don’t necessarily need to travel too far away, sometimes the right person can be closer than we think.

Know your local area

The thing about living somewhere is that we don’t always know everyone who lives in our area, even if we know that area well. We might assume that we have ran the well dry by visiting every local bar and nightclub but the truth is that we cannot ever be sure we have contacted every possible lover in our town. Of course there are other places we can go to meet new partners. Doing an activity such as sports, or even joining a club for specialist activities such as reading can introduce us to new people too. Basically, the more we get around the better we know our own turf.

Using online dating

This is where using dating websites can come in handy; as most dating sites now allow us to find people by using local filters so we can find love or find local sex contacts in our own area. This is one of the easiest thing to do, and it has the advantage of making keep a certain level of anonymity. After all who wants everyone to know that they are looking for sex? Sure you want to be successful and having a good time but you don’t necessarily want the whole neighbourhood to know about it. In that regard, dating websites really bring us the privacy we need to get to know our local area in depth.

Best behaviour

There are a few more things about online dating that you should be aware of, especially if you are looking for local lovers. The main one is to do with discretion, in other words try to keep your stories to yourself and never sleep and tell. It is easy to get a reputation, and more often than not sleeping around will not give you the stellar reputation you are looking for. People will know that you are not discrete and they will hesitate twice before embarking on a dating journey with you, might it be for love or for sex. It is easy to talk to a friend about a private event and before you know it everyone knows about what you’ve been up too, it can spoil it for your new potential partners. You best bet is to be discreet, respect people’s privacy and act like a good honest person. That way you shouldn’t get people talking about you saying how good or bad you are, and of course your partner’s privacy will be respected too. So look around, meet new people, have … Read More