For most males , approaching women can be almost enough to unnerve you – especially when you have no idea what to do, say or how to act to get her to like you . Most guys face this dilemma over and over again, and it only gets worse as you get rejected time after time. It’s kind of like being that poor monkey in the cage that has to push the button that shocks him in order to get food, right?
Well – it sucks. So what can a guy do to help a) rid himself of approach anxiety and b) have more successful approaches? The good news is, there are a number of things a man can do – and the following information is my personal favorite – it’s called the three Ts.
These three things need to be done within the first few minutes of meeting a lady . First of all, you touch her at least once. Touch her arm, her back, her leg – anything that is not exactly a sexual touch, but a touch nonetheless. When you are doing that, appear very cool about it, like you don’t even realize you are doing it.
Secondly, you have to tell herto do something. I know, that sounds strange when you are meeting girls, but it will begin to establish with her that you are the maleand you are in control of the situation. This is a huge factor in attraction with women. Tell her to look at something, show you something, give you something (her cell phone for example) – nothing major, just a small command.
Third – tease her. Bust on her about something – her hair, her shirt, something she said – whatever. This is a great technique known as Cocky Comedy, a phrase coined by David Deangelo (to learn more about David Deangelo and his Cocky Comedy program, click on the link). What it means is you use humor and a little comedy to establish attraction and high status for a woman. It may sound a little farfetched, but it works along the same lines as telling her to do something.
Put these three things together within the first minutes of approaching her and see how your success rate climbs. It’s actually very similar to the process that people use to break in horses. They first begin with touch, getting the horse used to the touch of the wrangler, the feel of a saddle on its back, the feel of a blanket or pad, etc. Then they begin giving the horse commands with touch or by controlling the horse’s movements (using bridles, reigns, voice commands, etc). Now, you cannot, of course, tease a horse – but you can reward it (and humor gives human beings an actual physical reward or reaction as it elevates certain senses and feelings within the body) by showing it that you are in control of it, and you will treat it well. You need to learn more about approaching girls today if you want to improve your dating life.
So – remember this set of rules when approaching women in a face to face situation. Touch, Tell, and Tease. Your success in meeting girls will dramatically increase, and your fear of rejection and uncomfortable thoughts will begin to diminish as well, making you a more confident, attractive and appealing Alpha Male to any woman.
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