5 Common Dating Mistakes Men Make
She was beautiful. She was popular. I wanted to walk up to her and say something clever so she would know that I liked her. I was different than all the jerks she went out with. So I walked up to Tina and told her that I liked her and that we should go out. She smiled and said “Why thank you. You would make any girl happy but you and I can only be friends.”
Back then I just didn’t get it. That was many years ago and today I can talk to any woman, anytime, and anywhere. I can also get a date whenever I want. I see men make the same mistakes over and over again. So here are 7 Common Dating Mistakes Men Make that get in the way of having better results with beautiful women.
Mistake #1) Acting Needy: One of the biggest secrets of attraction and seduction is a man who appears like he does NOT need a woman. Men buy women drinks in bars. They buy them gifts, vacations, and even cars. Yes, I’ve seen this my own two eyes.
If a woman is not interested in you then you need to learn how to move on. When you see a woman, interact with her and her friends, you cannot appear needy on ANY level. You must behave as though you do not need their company or their approval. Neediness is very unattractive to women and VERY unattractive to the hottie who can have any man she wants.
Mistake #2) Not Understanding How Attraction Works: A man sees a woman and he becomes attracted. A woman sees a man and thinks “I wonder what he’s like?” or “Ewww, I would never date that guy!”.
Women become attracted to a man VERY differently than men become attracted to women. If you check out the magazine rack you’ll see automobile. sports, and other men’s interest magazines littered with covers and ads full of attractive women. You don’t see much of that in women’s magazines.
Since most men don’t understand how attraction works they do things like try to impress them or even worse, they try and CONVINCE her that he’s that “nice guy”. It just doesn’t work.
Mistake #3) Having A One-Way Interaction: Ever approach a woman, ask her a question and she only gave you a one word answer? Then you tried again and you got another one? She’s clearly not interested, but somewhere in your mind you FEEL that if you just keep on talking you might wear her out. Her REAL, true and caring self will come forth.
If you want to build attraction in women you have to let them participate. This is one reason why pick up lines, magic tricks, and entertaining women doesn’t work because men aren’t doing this right. If you EXPECT her to participate with what you’re trying to do then it makes her more comfortable because you are wanting to know her and not just after her for her looks.
Mistake #4)) No Dating Funnel: A man walks up to a woman, users a clever opener, get’s her phone number, calls her a couple days later, he sets up a first date and then they go out. It doesn’t work out so he has to start all over again.
A HUGE mistake men make is that they only talk to, flirt, and meet one woman at a time. Imagine how much more powerful your confidence and body language would be if you knew you had 2, 3, or even 8 other dates right after your first one?
You wouldn’t act needy. You would be more relaxed and you would NOT think and feel like you HAD to make it work out with any one particular woman. Which leads us to….
Mistake #5) Tunnel Vision: This is when a man FEELS and THINKS he has to make it work out with ANY one particular woman. Men that have their choice of women rarely ever
get tunnel vision because they know they can always meet another woman. Whereas a man who doesn’t have any game or pick up skills finds himself alone on the weekends, drinking beer, and wondering why life is so unfair.
He mopes around because one particular woman did not like him.
If you can get a handle on these 5 Common Dating Mistakes then you won’t suffer from tunnel vision, you won’t act needy, your confidence will begin to skyrocket, and you’ll never have to “perform” in front of a group of women because you know that if they won’t commit to a two-way interaction, you’re gone.
Rod Cortez is an International Dating Coach who has shown thousands of men in more than 44 countries how to have more dating success. With thousands of field tests under his belt, Rod Cortez has come up with a proven, repeatable system to help men learn the laws of attraction, how to be more confidence, and how to have more natural conversations with women. For more free tips you can visit thedatepro.com/
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Believe it or not, the online dating game is as hard as dating women offline.
Why? you might ask …
Simply because there are some rules you must abide to if you want to make a good first impression to your date partner.
NOTE: the first impression really counts, especially for dating women in Russia.
Hundreds and even thousands of Russian women have online profiles, one more attractive than another. Your goal is to pick those profiles that interest you and contact each person personally.
Each dating site has its own ’searching’ options where you can look up women and retrieve their contact details, get direct e-mail, postal addresses, telephone number, etc.
You can take a peek in the photo gallery and select the person of your dreams, faster than a speeding bullet.
Here comes the hardest part…
How to make a good first impression and convince her to have a date with you as soon as possible.
Below are 5 TIPS for Online Dating in Russia:
TIP 1 - Create a ‘killer’ online profile
If you want to attract Russian women, your online profile must be super attractive and it must look original. There are hundreds other profiles of men just like you that are hunting for a Russian woman, your profile must stand on its own. It must be unique and attractive.
Make sure you add a nice photo to your profile (don’t add a nude one, it looks like you’re desperate and have no common sense!). The photo should represent only your person. It’s better you do not do photos with your dog, house or car. Russian women are not really impressed by those things.
TIP 2 - What do you really want?
Before you search online for Russian women, do your homework first. What do you have in mind when it comes to dating on the Internet?
a) a long or short therm relationship
b) a sex relationship
c) a marriage
d) just for the fun of dating
TIP 3 - Do you want to hunt for women?
Wouldn’t be better to let women hunt for you while you simply pick which one you like most and start dating them.
The key here is to create a killer profile that will attract women like wildfire.
NOTE: do not lie about you, your interests, hobbies or whatever you describe in your profile.
Russian women do not like to be fooled and want to be respected, so don’t risk your chance of success.
TIP 4 - E-mail communication
Usually, if you want to build trust with your dating partner (that’s the KEY!) you should use e-mail first. It’s not as personal as phone conversation but it works in the online medium and works wonders.
Send a few e-mails to get to know her better, if she likes what you’re writing her, she’ll gladly respond with comments, questions, etc.
In the beginning try to ask just a few questions and keep conversations small.
TIP 5 - Telephone conversation
Telephone is much more personal than e-mail.
You should increase your chance of success by at least 300% if you communicate by phone with your potential online dating partner.
TIP: talk slowly and calmly. Do not ask inadequate or too many questions. Don’t look desperate and needy. Try to converse like you’ve known her for some time. Do not act like you’re a stranger to her (you had already talked with her by e-mail several times before!).
Finally, you’ve read the 5 TIPS for Online Dating in Russia. Don’t you think you deserve to succeed in the online dating game now?
Now, go on and create your ‘killer’ online profile!
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