To excel in the dating game it is important to be guided by the player and they dont come much better than date doctor Alex Hitchens in short Hitch. So we took his word as a piece of gospel when he said that ‘With no guile and no game there is no girl’. These are few of the tips from his movie Hitch to help you guys to see the forest through the sleaze.
Principle 1: No woman wakes up saying god I hope I dont get swept off my feet today
No species after bacteria existed on the planet that doesnt require admiration from the fellow species. Women are on the top of this ladder so not only they want it but also all of it. Did I say women are high on vanity chart (dont tell your prospect this).
If she tell you that she is going through a very bad time or need personal space or Hitch personal favorite that Im really into my career right now. What she really meant is get off me now or try harder stupid. Which one is it for you to decide?
Principle 2: 90% of what you say is aint coming out of your mouth.
Body language plays a major role initially so try to be better at it. For a fact 60% of all human communication is body language and 30%is your tone so basically 90% of what you say aint coming out of your mouth. People keep on preparing and worrying about the 10% of it while neglecting the rest 90%, which play a major role in securing the first date. Work on the 90% and let the 10% be taken care on the first date.
Principal 3: Beautiful doesnt know what she wants until she sees it.
Well this is true for all of us but more for those busty beautifuls who until now spend all their faculties on building those curves as elegant as a F1 track. Testimony to that ask Christian Kerembu or Celine Dion. Take your pick whom do you prefer.
Principle 4: Be what you are, you have something to offer to her which no other man can.
The most common mistake that most guys commit is try to be somebody else to impress the women of their dreams. Most fail at it without guessing so try to be what you are. You cannot use what you do not have, so if you are shy then be shy.
She may not want the whole true but she does want to see the real you. She may not want to see all at once but she does want to see it. So be yourself as she said yes to you when she could have said no.
Principle 5: Give her space and maintain a vision
On first date, key is to hang back and give her plenty of space. If she lingers on a photograph move on but maintain vision. Domestic dreams on private time when you are with her be with her. Women respond when you respond to them. Therefore, when she speaks just listen to her as when your turn will come you will have better things to say than I like your mouth. Please stop imagining how she looks naked.
So get off from the couch now and try few of these tonight in the club and have time of your life.
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1. When you go out on a date with a woman, wear decent shoes which are clean and polished. This is very important to a woman.
Why you may ask? Well, if you ask a woman what she looks at when she first sees a man she will usually say, face, shoes and bum. If she sees you are wearing dirty shoes or trainers she will not be impressed at all. On the other hand if you are wearing nice, shiny shoes subconciously she will think “he looks after himself, he has got his act together, can look after me and provide for me”.
2. Make sure you have a presentable hairstyle which is cut regularly to keep it looking good & above all your hair must be clean.
If your hair isn’t clean she will run screaming from the building! Well maybe not but your chances of getting a second date will go down a lot. What if you don’t have much hair? Well a good thing to do in this case is to shave it off completely as having little hair isn’t a choice, but shaving it completely is a choice. Also some girls really go for shaved guys.
3. Keep your hands and fingernails clean and tidy.
Women hate men that have dirty nails, she will think “if he can’t be bothered to keep his nails clean, god knows what the rest of him is like!” You should trim and file your nails too, she will think you look after yourself and are cool, not that you are gay or something!
4. Wear a quality aftershave and use talcom powder.
A woman’s sense of smell is around 40 times better than a man’s and she loves it when you smell good, so saving money by buying a cheap aftershave will cost you in the women department. If you smell nice she will be sniffing you and will want to be near you, also most men don’t bother to wear aftershave when they go out, so if you are wearing a quality aftershave then you will definately smell better than the competition.
5. Use mens’s moisturizing lotion on your face and hands regularly and drink lots of water.
Keeping your face and hands looking younger and feeling softer than they would do otherwise will make you more attractive to women and drinking lots of water is good for your body and will help keep you young.
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