Have you ever been the spurned lover who can’t quite figure out why you were dumped and try everything in your power to try and make your ex see the error of her ways. If you answered yes then you more than likely have jeopardized your chances of winning them back.
One of the main courses of communication open to someone who’s been dumped is the phone. But how you use this important piece of equipment is crucial to your chances of getting back with your ex. You see, no matter how many times you call them and act in a desperate manner they won’t call you back.
In The Magic Of Making Up Guide, author T W Jackson reveals an ingenious method of getting your ex to call you back. Jackson warns however that if you don’t plan ahead and simply use this strategy hapzardly, you’ll do your chances of getting an audience with your ex more harm than good.
It’s all about creating a curiosity and self interest factor and requires a cool head and a strategy.
Becoming Irresistible To Your Ex
One thing you never want to do if you’re on the receiving end is to hound your ex with phone calls. Having said that, there is a way to get your ex to return your phone call but it’s got it’s limitations and can backfire without being properly executed.
It’s one of the classic Magic Of Making Up Guide techniques which when done right, can almost cast a temporary spell over one’s ex. And it’s just one of the reasons The Magic Of making Up is fast becoming the most important book ever written on making up.
Before we look at what to say to get your ex to return your phone call let’s look at what not to say. Again, cut the pleading tactic, it doesn’t work and is ugly and unattractive such as “Jenny please call me…I’m going out of my mind. I think I might do something drastic if you don’t call.”
Then there is the emergency call such as “Jenny, something’s happened. You need to call me.” Uggh! Would you call back. It sounds insincere.
One of the keys to the Magic Of Making Up Guide is the technique of creating curiosity and self interest. Here’s an example of a message you could leave…”Hi Jenny. Just calling to say thank you for what you did for me. Call me because I’d like to thank you in person.
You’ve just created the curiosity and self interest factor. Curiosity as in Jenny will be wondering what she did and self interest because the message has a positive feel.
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