Boys Into Men – Sometimes You Just Have to Stop and Ask For Directions

Boys Into Men - Sometimes You Just Have to Stop and Ask For Directions

The guy who divorces his wife, gets a hot girlfriend and buys a red Corvette is a hoary but oft repeated stereotype of a man going through a midlife crisis. It’s unclear what comes first, the girlfriend or the sports car but that doesn’t really matter. I work with men going through mid life transitions and to my knowledge, not one of them owns a sports car. My ideal client is the guy who is a little afraid to ask for directions but he can do it. Hardly typical, I know.

Just about every man goes through some kind of mid life transition between the ages of 35 and 50. What they get out of it is entirely up to them but when they go through it is not often their choice. A mid life transition can be as gentle as feeling a little uncomfortable to a full blown identity crisis.

Let’s start with the full blown identity crisis shall we? A surprising number of men I work with claim that they do not feel like men at all. They feel like boys dressed in men’s clothing who act like men and who talk like they think men should talk. … READ MORE ...

Get Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Back Now

At some point in our lives we will all experience the heartache when a relationship comes to an end. However for some of us, we suddenly realize that this was the person for us and that we have unfortunately lost them due to some mistake we made. Of course once a person realizes this, they will start to look at various ways of how to get that person back. If you happen to find yourself in this situation, then you may find our tips prove to be extremely useful on how to get your ex back.

Tip 1 – You must be prepared and be willing to do anything and everything necessary that you can to win back the person you love so much. You must be willing to learn from the mistakes you have made in the past if you want to win them back for good. Also you need to figure out what caused you to break up in the first place and make sure that this never happens again in the future.

In some cases the break up was caused by a small disagreement between you. What you need to remember is – the foundation … READ MORE ...

The Dangers of Staying in an Abusive Relationship

For a relationship to be abusive, it isn’t necessary that you have to endure physical harm. An abusive relationship might just as easily be emotionally abusive, and when this is the case, it is hard to know when to call it off. If you have nagging suspicions about your relationship and feel it might be abusive, call it off, or else here’s what you are risking.

The very first danger of staying in an abusive relationship is that you will most probably become a victim of depression and that may eventually aggravate into something serious, heart problems for instance. If the abuse is physical, you are not only risking harm to your body, but will also become paranoid and jumpy. When this happens, you will over think every little thing you are about to do and wonder if it will make him angry. This is no way to live, and if you don’t get help you might sink into despair and develop anxiety disorders.

An abusive relationship will make you feel helpless and without any control over your life. Victims of abuse are very often in complete denial. This is because the abusive partner craftily applies brainwashing, until … READ MORE ...

Why Is Your Boyfriend No Longer Romantic?

Why Is Your Boyfriend No Longer Romantic?

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Does your boyfriend still bring you flowers? Unexpected presents? Sometimes put on mood music and light candles at dinner?

No?

Well, I’ll be darned! That’s so hard to believe!

Actually, it’s not hard to believe at all. It happens all the time. And the reasons can be easily explained (we’ll get to that.)

What I know is that it makes your life feel bland. The “spice” is gone. Every day is the same monotonous routine. Perhaps you are contemplating an affair.

I often hear it said that “communication” is the key to relationship issues. So hopefully you’ve tried to talk to him about this. Right? And nothing’s changed? So much for “communication.”

Actually, I think “communication” is over-hyped. It is important, sure, but it is not the magic bullet that solves all relationship problems. You need to get this out of your head.

I suggest replacing “communication” with some basic knowledge about what makes relationships work or not work. THEN you’ll have something to “communicate” about!

Why do you want him to be romantic anyway? There is no functional purpose in it.

Whoa! Did I say that? (Just testing you.)

Being romantic does have a functional purpose. It … READ MORE ...

relationshipJealous relations do exist, and they could cause a problem inside the household overall. No matter these two factors all management selections give attention to the environment friendly and efficient use of resources for the good thing about the organisation, within the path of its desired objectives and/or goals. I do know of a lady who was in an abusive relationship and she made the decision to depart together with her three daughters go a shelter and accept welfare. It’s because the individual shouldn’t be getting what they want out of the relationship. If you’ll be able to go every week with out chatting with your beloved, then possibly the 2 of it’s best to re-evaluate the relationship. I hope the transient data above has helped you and that it prompts you to go on now to get the detailed info that can insure that your relationship strikes rapidly in a extra constructive course.

If a relationship doesn’t work, it is either a problem with one of many individuals, an issue with the environment, drawback with the scenario, or a problem with the couple themselves. By all means handle your partner with good meals, wholesome actions and many love and … READ MORE ...