5 Critical Shocking Facts Most Men Worldwide Don’t Know About Women

5 Critical Shocking Facts Most Men Worldwide Don't Know About Women

Esquire magazine runs an enlightening column every month in its print issue, putting a female celebrity in the spotlight and asking them to answer that eternal question: What do most men not know about women?

The list is extensive and the answers are varied, but for the best results in your dating career, file these five rules to memory.

1. Too many compliments spoil the broth. Girls love getting compliments. They do. They don’t spend hours getting ready for nothing. A well chosen compliment goes a long way. However, there are benefits in restraint. Showering her with compliments, even though you mean it, will dilute the impact. She might even begin to think that you have ulterior motives, or worse, guilty of something. At which point, paranoia creeps in.

2. Women dress to impress other women. Remember that when you’re tempted to ask her about her uncomfortable looking babydoll-and-leggings combination. She won’t be impressed by any snide comments, especially if her girlfriends think she looks fab. Instead, tell her she looks very trendy. It’ll score you points or it’ll make you sound gay. And if it’s the latter, then you can always prove her otherwise, right?

3. Selective hearing. All the nice things you’ve said about her will be wiped out by a single negative remark. Praise and flattery are background noise, but she’ll zero in on a criticism like a shark to chum. And she’ll remember it for life, bringing it up months from now. So lads, even if you don’t have anything nice to say, say something nice.

4. Never trust a woman without girlfriends. If she’s managed to pissed off and alienate all of her female friends, what chance do you stand? You might think that her reduced requirement for girly time and shopping excursions might mean … READ MORE ...

Boys Into Men – Sometimes You Just Have to Stop and Ask For Directions

Boys Into Men - Sometimes You Just Have to Stop and Ask For Directions

The guy who divorces his wife, gets a hot girlfriend and buys a red Corvette is a hoary but oft repeated stereotype of a man going through a midlife crisis. It’s unclear what comes first, the girlfriend or the sports car but that doesn’t really matter. I work with men going through mid life transitions and to my knowledge, not one of them owns a sports car. My ideal client is the guy who is a little afraid to ask for directions but he can do it. Hardly typical, I know.

Just about every man goes through some kind of mid life transition between the ages of 35 and 50. What they get out of it is entirely up to them but when they go through it is not often their choice. A mid life transition can be as gentle as feeling a little uncomfortable to a full blown identity crisis.

Let’s start with the full blown identity crisis shall we? A surprising number of men I work with claim that they do not feel like men at all. They feel like boys dressed in men’s clothing who act like men and who talk like they think men should talk. Somehow the line between childhood and being all grown up was never traversed. Men in this predicament have a very profound fear that they are going to be found out and exposed, as if someone will rip off their mask and find the scared boy masquerading in a suit and tie.

At some point these men/boys get fed up pretending and want to get real. The only problem is that they have been pretending so long, they have no idea how to be real or how to be a man. Typically, before they stop to ask for help they medicate … READ MORE ...

Stay Close and Connected in Your Relationship No Matter How Busy You Feel

Between work and errands, home care and driving the kids to and from social or sporting events, it might seem like you hardly have time to sit down and relax.

When you even think about making time to do something special with your partner, the thought of doing just one more thing could tire and stress you out even more.

Of course, you love your mate. And, of course, you want to keep your relationship alive, connected and passionate. But you just don’t seem to have the time or energy to make it happen!

If this sounds like your life, you’re not alone.

One study recently conducted here in the U.S. found that over 75% of the couples interviewed want to spend more time with their significant other and around the same number are craving greater romance in their relationship.

We believe that if you want more time together, romance, and passion, you can have it. And it doesn’t have to involve hard work!

When it comes down to it, if you want to be in a close love relationship, it’s vital that you open up to a new way of living where you and your mate aren’t just “two ships passing in the night.”

Your relationship deserves and requires care and attention– just as your children, your home, your job and your own body do.

We know, with all of the responsibilities you might have and the various people and things calling for your attention, it might seem impossible to fit in yet one more thing.

It seems easy to take it for granted that your partner will always be there for you and that “one day” you two will return to fostering the romance and connection you both crave now.

Don’t take anything for granted– especially … READ MORE ...

Get Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Back Now

At some point in our lives we will all experience the heartache when a relationship comes to an end. However for some of us, we suddenly realize that this was the person for us and that we have unfortunately lost them due to some mistake we made. Of course once a person realizes this, they will start to look at various ways of how to get that person back. If you happen to find yourself in this situation, then you may find our tips prove to be extremely useful on how to get your ex back.

Tip 1 – You must be prepared and be willing to do anything and everything necessary that you can to win back the person you love so much. You must be willing to learn from the mistakes you have made in the past if you want to win them back for good. Also you need to figure out what caused you to break up in the first place and make sure that this never happens again in the future.

In some cases the break up was caused by a small disagreement between you. What you need to remember is – the foundation to a successful relationship is made up of sacrifice and compromise. Therefore whenever possible, avoid allowing these small disagreements to occur between you which could adversely affect your relationship. It is best to shrug such things off and get on with your life together.

Tip 2 – The next thing you will need to do when it comes to getting your ex back is to make contact with them once more. However, when making contact ensure that you don’t look like you are desperate. The first thing you need to do is call them and ask how they are, but … READ MORE ...

Win Your Girlfriend Back – 5 Successful Steps to Getting Her Back

Are you planning a course of action to win your girlfriend back? When a relationship is first started and then ends really fast, it makes both parties wonder if it’s really over.

A few of us men can’t accept that our girlfriend left, so we end up hoping to see her there in the morning and that breaking up was only a nightmare. The most important thing that you can do to win your girlfriend back is to develop a plan.

There are a lot of ways you can win your girlfriend back, but these are the five most important steps to take.

Step 1 – Ask yourself crucial questions.

It doesn’t matter how terrible the breakup was there’s always second chances, so it’s not impossible to win your girlfriend back. Before trying to get her back, make sure this is what you want to do.

Is she still the one that you love? Are you sure you truly want to get back together with your girlfriend, and if so why? The first question you must ask yourself is whether you want to win your girlfriend back because you are lonely or because you were unfairly dumped.

If you are trying to get your ex back, and you don’t love them, then both of you could get seriously hurt.

Step 2 – Stay Strong.

If want to win your girlfriend back, do not show any weakness to your ex girlfriend. You need to maintain a calm and collected public image, even though you are very depressed and desperate to get her back.

Do not express your feelings to the girlfriend you want to win back. Rather, express your feelings to close friends or family members and let it all out. Do not hold back. Do not beg or … READ MORE ...