Boys Into Men – Sometimes You Just Have to Stop and Ask For Directions

Boys Into Men - Sometimes You Just Have to Stop and Ask For Directions

The guy who divorces his wife, gets a hot girlfriend and buys a red Corvette is a hoary but oft repeated stereotype of a man going through a midlife crisis. It’s unclear what comes first, the girlfriend or the sports car but that doesn’t really matter. I work with men going through mid life transitions and to my knowledge, not one of them owns a sports car. My ideal client is the guy who is a little afraid to ask for directions but he can do it. Hardly typical, I know.

Just about every man goes through some kind of mid life transition between the ages of 35 and 50. What they get out of it is entirely up to them but when they go through it is not often their choice. A mid life transition can be as gentle as feeling a little uncomfortable to a full blown identity crisis.

Let’s start with the full blown identity crisis shall we? A surprising number of men I work with claim that they do not feel like men at all. They feel like boys dressed in men’s clothing who act like men and who talk like they think men should talk. … READ MORE ...

7 Secret qualities of men discovering heat

7 Secret qualities of men discovering heat

Yes, we usually open books for almost all women around. Or so we let you think;) Seriously, there are usually a few things you can know about us just by glancing at us, but there are SOME secrets that we keep among ourselves, especially when it comes to relationships. Despite the sheer number, here are 7 “secrets” that make a woman very attractive to us.

1. Intelligence: Perhaps the number one misconception is that all men look for girls who are stupid and easy to lie. Indeed, sometimes we are what we are looking for, depending on the opportunity (we are not looking for a wife at the club.) However, what we are really looking for 90% of the time is women who are intellectual matches with which we can talk (talk ?! !?) Yes you read that correctly, we really want you to be smart, it can even be on if you are smarter than us. Just don’t let anyone know we said that!

2. Personality: “He has a great personality” is the guy’s code for “He’s ugly but …” That’s true, but in reality we want you to have a great personality; it completes the package. Just like … READ MORE ...

4 Dating Mistakes Men Make All the Time When Talking to Women

At one point or another, all men will make a dating mistake with a woman. And this is natural. The trick to manage and keep all mistakes to a minimum. But for some men, this is harder than rocket science. Much harder.

So in this article, you’ll discover the most commonly made dating mistakes men make when meeting a woman, and how you can prevent these mistakes from happening before she walks out of your life forever. Let’s take a look at mistake number 1.

4 Dating Mistakes Men Make All the Time When Talking to Women

1) FLAUNTING YOUR MONEY

Look don’t get me wrong. Money is cool. Everyone could use more money right? And a woman who has a man could only benefit from having more money and things in her life right? Well, that’s a two-way street, but the main point here is that you shouldn’t do this.

You can’t buy a woman. Period. And, you can buy her love. And although some women find a man with money more attractive than a man who doesn’t, you can’t expect a woman to come running to you just because you pull out a stack of bills from your pocket.

The best thing you can do for yourself when it comes … READ MORE ...

American Single Woman Dating – Where to Find Single Men

As an American single woman, you may probably live a very busy life. Well, most Americans are. After a tiring and stressful day at the office, you would not have the time to date or even the desire to search for potential partners.

But thanks to dating services, you can now do what you have always wanted – to look for some whom you can have a long-term relationship with. These dating websites have been created to help single women with their needs.

With the proliferation of dating websites that cater mostly to single women, it has become somewhat of an easy process for single women to look for men within their area. The major question that is perhaps running through your brain is if these subscription-based dating websites are actually worth the money, and if they can deliver the desired results you want.

American Single Woman Dating - Where to Find Single Men

Well, it depends whether or not you are determined to pursue a long-term romance, and if you are indeed serious, then it would be an excellent idea to take advantage of these services since you are guaranteed that what you would be getting is top quality, given the fact that you are shelling out your hard-earned … READ MORE ...

Stay Close and Connected in Your Relationship No Matter How Busy You Feel

Between work and errands, home care and driving the kids to and from social or sporting events, it might seem like you hardly have time to sit down and relax.

When you even think about making time to do something special with your partner, the thought of doing just one more thing could tire and stress you out even more.

Of course, you love your mate. And, of course, you want to keep your relationship alive, connected and passionate. But you just don’t seem to have the time or energy to make it happen!

If this sounds like your life, you’re not alone.

One study recently conducted here in the U.S. found that over 75% of the couples interviewed want to spend more time with their significant other and around the same number are craving greater romance in their relationship.

We believe that if you want more time together, romance, and passion, you can have it. And it doesn’t have to involve hard work!

When it comes down to it, if you want to be in a close love relationship, it’s vital that you open up to a new way of living where you and your mate aren’t … READ MORE ...