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4 Pieces of Advice to Help You After Coming Out

Coming out can be incredibly daunting, and although you might feel nervous and worried about the moment you come out yourself, you might also feel concerned and a little bit lost about what happens after you first come out. As such, here are some of the best pieces of advice that can help you after you come out.

Have Fun

Sometimes, the best way to explore your sexuality and the newfound freedom that you have to express it is simply by having fun and enjoying being out. You do not have to take dating seriously or date at all, and you can simply have fun waving rainbow flags and being open about your sexuality. However, if you do decide to date or sleep with other people, you should consider having fun in the bedroom by investing in queer adult products, such as lesbian sex toys, that can allow you to enjoy having sex, maybe for the first time.

Find a Queer Community

Many people who have only recently come out find that they lack a queer community and that they still feel isolated from the queer communities around them, especially if they live in a rural area or are … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — July 18, 2022 in Relationship
Couples Counselling – The Gottman Method, Homework, and the Importance of a Dynamic Counsellor

What is couples counselling? This article discusses the Gottman method, ‘Homework’, and the importance of a dynamic counsellor. Here are a few things to keep in mind while seeking advice from a couples counsellor. They can help you decide if couples counselling is right for you and your relationship. Read on to learn more. Listed below are some of the benefits of couples counselling. A couples counsellor’s role is to help the couple explore their relationship from a new perspective.

Relationship counselling

Relationship counselling for couples begins with joint sessions that explore the couple’s history and current problems. Couples work to create goals for their therapy, which may include improving communication, addressing conflict, or working on infidelity. Initial sessions generally focus on the couple’s history and problems, and the therapist may also spend time talking to family members. However, if one or both partners is reluctant to see a therapist, the counselor can work with a phone call or online chat to facilitate communication.

Many counselors offer different types of therapy to address the needs of their clients. In general, three approaches to couples counselling are used: the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Imago Relationship Therapy. Nonetheless, there are … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — June 29, 2022 in Marriage Counselling
5 Reasons to Break Up with Someone You Love

There are countless reasons to break up with someone you love. Those reasons range from personal growth to emotional upheaval. The only thing worse than being pushed to the brink of despair is realizing that the person you love is a bad influence on your life. Luckily, there are also many ways to avoid this unpleasant conversation. Here are some tips that will help you stay together instead of breaking up.

Healthy relationship brings out the best in both partners

A healthy relationship is defined by mutual respect. Each partner supports the dreams of the other and respects their personal boundaries. Both partners give each other time and space to work out any differences. Neither partner feels threatened by the other financially or emotionally. They communicate openly and honestly with each other. Relationships are healthy when they bring out the best in both partners. If your relationship is in trouble, follow the tips in this article to make it work.

Good communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. The other person has already communicated what he or she wants. Listen to this communication and actively work towards meeting these needs. This will help you to develop a deeper emotional … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — June 14, 2022 in Break Up
Top 5 Dating Reality Shows of 2019

Bravo is rebooting the popular dating reality show, “Blind Date,” which first aired in 1999 and lasted for 10 seasons. The show follows singles as they go on a series of blind dates in hopes of forming lasting relationships. The show’s host, Nikki Glaser, guides the audience through the dates as they take a chance on finding love. This new edition of the show is full of modern twists to keep up with the social media craze, with thought bubbles and graphics ensuring daters are heard and understood.

Too Hot to Handle is a dating game show

Too Hot to Handle is a new reality show on Netflix that features 10 single people in a romantic setting on a tropical island. Unlike traditional blind dates, this show requires couples to avoid making physical contact and kissing during the dates. The women and men involved must keep their sexuality under control, and the show’s rules make it very hard for them to find lasting love. In addition, the contestants must also agree to participate in workshops and not make sexual contact with each other. The competition is fierce, with a $100,000 cash prize at stake.

The show has also spawned several … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — June 6, 2022 in Blind Date
These 5 Signs Mean You’Re Ready To Get Married

1. You’ve moved on from the dating scene

If the whole dating scene feels like something from another life, you’re ready for the next big thing. Some people have a miserable time dating, others love it. But at the point where it seems over for you, take it as a sign that you’re ready to get married. A comedian once said he realised that he only ever went out in the first place, to find someone to stay in with.

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2. You’ve stopped looking

You realise that whereas with other dates, you had half an eye on who else was around, you’ve stopped doing that. You’re not constantly scrutinising people as potential dates or partners, or wondering if the perfect person is really out there. The relationship people, Relate, have a good summary of the pitfalls of online dating – https://www.relate.org.uk/relationship-help/help-relationships/being-single-and-dating/pitfalls-dating. If that strikes a chord, it’s another sign you’re ready for marriage.

That settled feeling is because you’ve found what you were looking for and are ready to move on with your life.

These 5 Signs Mean You'Re Ready To Get Married

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3. You won’t feel insecure

If you’re ready to marry, you’ll feel secure. You won’t be jealous, or worried about the … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — December 4, 2018 in Relationship Test