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The Dangers of Staying in an Abusive Relationship

The Dangers of Staying in an Abusive Relationship
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For a relationship to be abusive, it isn’t necessary that you have to endure physical harm. An abusive relationship might just as easily be emotionally abusive, and when this is the case, it is hard to know when to call it off. If you have nagging suspicions about your relationship and feel it might be abusive, call it off, or else here’s what you are risking.

The very first danger of staying in an abusive relationship is that you will most probably become a victim of depression and that may eventually aggravate into something serious, heart problems for instance. If the abuse is physical, you are not only risking harm to your body, but will also become paranoid and jumpy. When this happens, you will over think every little thing you are about to do and wonder if it will make him angry. This is no way to live, and if you don’t get help you might sink into despair and develop anxiety disorders.

An abusive relationship will make you feel helpless and without any control over your life. Victims of abuse are very often in complete denial. This is because the abusive partner craftily applies brainwashing, until … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — June 6, 2019 in Relationship Issues
Why Is Your Boyfriend No Longer Romantic?

Why Is Your Boyfriend No Longer Romantic?

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Does your boyfriend still bring you flowers? Unexpected presents? Sometimes put on mood music and light candles at dinner?

No?

Well, I’ll be darned! That’s so hard to believe!

Actually, it’s not hard to believe at all. It happens all the time. And the reasons can be easily explained (we’ll get to that.)

What I know is that it makes your life feel bland. The “spice” is gone. Every day is the same monotonous routine. Perhaps you are contemplating an affair.

I often hear it said that “communication” is the key to relationship issues. So hopefully you’ve tried to talk to him about this. Right? And nothing’s changed? So much for “communication.”

Actually, I think “communication” is over-hyped. It is important, sure, but it is not the magic bullet that solves all relationship problems. You need to get this out of your head.

I suggest replacing “communication” with some basic knowledge about what makes relationships work or not work. THEN you’ll have something to “communicate” about!

Why do you want him to be romantic anyway? There is no functional purpose in it.

Whoa! Did I say that? (Just testing you.)

Being romantic does have a functional purpose. It … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — May 15, 2019 in Relationship Issues
Why You Should Never Pay for Online Dating

Online dating is a popular option because of the relative ease of the process. It is accessible from anywhere and it gives people a sense of comfort. It is much easier to approach a stranger online than in real life.

The popularity of online dating has brought many options to the market. Dating websites are general, specialized, free and paid. Some people are lured into believing that a paid dating website will increase their chances of discovering true love.

Why You Should Never Pay for Online Dating

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Is it really worth it spending money on online dating when hundreds of free opportunities are available? Apart from being a financial burden, paid online dating can lead to a needless sense of necessity and failed expectations.

Manipulation

Just imagine a website that features hundred of impeccable pictures. The men resemble mister Olympia but all of them have university degrees and well paid jobs. All women approximate Pamela Anderson. To make it even better – they cook, they listen and they take perfect care of their house.

Once a person provides the payment needed to use the website, the situation changes. All the movie stars disappear to be replaced with… well, regular people.

Many websites use this little trick … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — May 9, 2019 in Dating Online
VR Porn: Is it Worth Watching?

The popularity of virtual reality porn has risen over the last few years – thanks to the easy access and its ability to put the real actions in front of the faces of porn enthusiasts. It is a whole new experience that’s worth exploring –and if you are yet to try out, then you’re missing out.

VR Porn: Is it Worth Watching?

The porn industry is at the forefront of innovation. Productions and stakeholders are keen on giving their users a life-like experience whenever they seek pleasure through porn videos. Today, the best VR porn videos are easily accessible online, with some even using high-quality big-budget production to guarantee a top user experience.

So, is virtual reality porn worth watching?

The short answer is yes. It is worth it to watch VR porn because the truly stellar experience comes from 360 degrees.  Being able to immerse yourself into the scene heightens your senses and brings things to an entirely new level. The immersion means that you can look around and even trick your brain into thinking that you are part of the action. And although some videos are only 180 degrees, some offer an entire 360-degree view for an out of this world experience.

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Kaylee Gavin by — April 3, 2019 in Relationship
Marriage Problems – Unrealistic Expectations and Prevent Your Divorce

Having marriage problems? Join the club! There are many other people out there feeling exactly like you do right now. Unfortunately, knowing that fact doesn’t make it any easier to deal with as solving the problems can be easier said than done. It helps if you know what is causing the problems.

Marriage Problems - Unrealistic Expectations and Prevent Your Divorce
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Many problems with marriage start when one or both people in a marriage put unrealistic expectations on their partner. This happens more often in marriages that involve people who got married at a young age and have not had a lot of relationship experience, but it can happen with experienced relationship goers as well. These unrealistic expectations can cause problems including anger, disappointment, and frustration. Sound like you?

Here are just a few of the most popular unrealistic myths that cause problems with marriage for many couples.

Movie Type Romance

Movies give us ideas about what life should really look like, and we eat it up! Unfortunately movies are not real life. Marriages on movies are often filled with great romance and tear-filled moments of joy, but real marriages don’t tend to portray a pre-written script. Movies create a fantasy which is hard to live up … READ MORE ...

Kaylee Gavin by — March 12, 2019 in Marriage Problems